I try not to set New Year’s resolutions; I set aims instead of goals! The reason for that is to be gentler to myself and to pull myself in a certain direction rather than giving a promise I don’t even know if I can keep. I’ve actually written more deeply about “aim instead of goals”…
I have finally built my Notion database for 2025! Notion is an amazing organization software and application and it’s highly customizable, though it’s a little bit of a learning curve before you can comfortably use it. Some people find it easier to just download an editable template to work with. That’s why I’m sharing my…
How I will plan my days, weeks and months in 2025 After a lot of thinking I have decided the perfect planning system for me. It’s a combination of the following components: On a daily I will however only use the Notion application and my Hobonichi Cousin physical planner. I was thinking on incorporating a…
I have been thinking about what I want to focus on 2025. Now when I’m quite sure (although I can’t definitely know until February) I will work at a flower shop, I will turn this year into a green year. My philosophical studies will continue but I will have them second to my herbal studies,…
Skip those New Year’s resolutions and set your VISIONS, VALUES and AIMS instead! I have rarely set resolutions for the new year, because I know, I just KNOW, I will break them. For years I didn’t do anything to improve my life, until one year, 2 years ago now, I created a formula that worked…
Imagine if I said that studying is not just for getting a job or for continuing professional development. Imagine if there were more to it than that. Something that is in our human nature. Humans have always wanted to learn! I’m a prime example. I cannot work a job due to disabilities, but I’m taking courses all…
I have begun my shadow work and healing journey for a while ago. It still feels like yesterday. Healing is hard. It’s uncomfortable when healing from sexual assault, domestic violence, and childhood abuse because it takes up so much of your time and energy. I’m trying to focus on my YouTube channel and my filmmaking.…
I’m planning on a productive day with psychology and philosophy studies in the morning, cleaning the kitchen and living room, and some fairly long writing sessions on my book projects in the afternoon. I woke up quite early today. The things I’m planning on doing today are the following: Studies I’m mostly studying for personal…
I have even multiple planners! I have goals and duties, but since I have a disability I don’t have a job and I’m not a parent so I don’t have these kinds of duties. However, as an adult person, I have certain things I have to do just like everyone else… But it’s not a…
Why nobody is lazy — it’s always an underlying problem I have autism, in fact, I have the PDA type as well, and PDA stands for Pathological Demand Avoidance. On the surface this can look like laziness explained or worse — to rationalize laziness — but it’s really not. It’s a real thing, a real…