Category: Personal Growth
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I live by the fact that I only can control what is in the present. I know that sounds cliché, but it’s true. Why are some things that are true considered “cliché” anyway? I do not think we are in full control in the moment but we are more in control than in the past…
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So I saw a few YouTube videos the other day, as I often do. One from an angry ableist paster who called stay-at-home dads “clowns”, one from a university student who ties all her worth to her studies and hopes that “everybody has a productive week” and one about how you should take care of…
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I have changed my qualifications from Classical studies and Philosophy to an Open Degree in Psychology and Language studies. I wanted to do something I’m more familiar with. I’m studying at Open University, and I like it so far, although I’m in the first stage of my bachelor’s. Since my education was delayed due to…
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Why nobody is lazy — it’s always an underlying problem I have autism, in fact, I have the PDA type as well, and PDA stands for Pathological Demand Avoidance. On the surface this can look like laziness explained or worse — to rationalize laziness — but it’s really not. It’s a real thing, a real…
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I was thinking about it the other day. Now it’s almost 2024 and I feel content for once in my life! I have a few visions for 2024 and also a few goals, but I don’t set resolutions anymore. I don’t want to and I don’t need to. I’m more gentle with myself and I…
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How trauma caused dysphoria and made me hate being female I want to tell my story of hating my sex and gender to the point that I genuinely thought I was transgender. First I want to put a caveat here though: I recognize that gender dysphoria is real and that transgender folks are real and…
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Web design, mobile app, content creation… There are so many things I’m working on right now – for one life purpose! I wanted to peek into the blog and just say a big HAPPY BIRTHDAY to ME since now I’m 31 and am officially over 30, which means I consider myself wise enough to take…
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I’ve come far. If I think about it, I’ve come so goddamn far! Five years ago I would just lay in bed and sleep through the day. Because I had nothing to live for. Now I have more than ever. I have my art, my spirituality, my partner, my friends, my family… I’m working towards…
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And now with the internet, I realize that it is more possible than it has ever been! I love the responses people are leaving in the comment section of my YouTube channel… Sometimes I have tears in my eyes due to feeling seen and heard by other people. We are not alone, ever! We can…
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How I tackle burnout in various areas in my life… I’m left feeling burnt out in various ways. Emotionally, psychologically, physically, and spiritually. Just in life overall. I have very little energy right now. So I need to plan how to tackle this, but not in an aggressive way, more a gentle push in the…